This is the cutest video ever! It really touches on how much communication with a toddler can encourage language and proper dialogue. He waits for his son to comment and then he responds. They are literally having a conversation!
I love how he talks to him as if he was an older child or adult. I have never thought using baby talk was a good idea, except when mimicking the very young child with coos and facial expressions. Once toddlers are trying to say words like “dog,” I believe you should repeat the word correctly for them. This is especially true as the child becomes of preschool age.
I hear improper words from little ones all the time, and I think they continue saying them because their parents think it is cute, so they don’t ever correct them. One of my favorites is “fruit cottontail.” It is adorable, but after a few times for smiles, it is good to correct them. There is no need to tell them they are saying it wrong, just correct them by saying something like, “You like this fruit cocktail?” After a few times, they will pick up the proper word.
This also applies to “private parts.” I know it may feel weird using the anatomically correct name, but trust me when I say that when there is a problem in that area, and your child is trying to tell an adult what it is, it is helpful to understand what they are trying to tell you! A child telling you their “whing ding” hurts does not really help a person decipher what they are talking about! 🙂 Using the correct names for body parts also shows kiddos that there is nothing funny or shameful about those body parts- they are just body parts like all the others.
Most importantly, just talk, talk, talk to your kiddos! They love to interact with you and have your attention! Ask lots of open-ended questions to let them know you value what they say. Repeat back what they are saying for clarification and to show them you are truly listening.
Having an open line of communication shows your kiddo that you will always be there to listen, and they will feel comfortable coming to you when there is a problem or situation they need help with. This is especially helpful in the teenage years when important issues may come up and they need someone to talk to. You will be that person that they know they can count on to listen and talk through things.
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